We are lonely creatures. We seek to connect. We build stories around that. Love
or courtship, or marriage.
We create those stories sometimes out of the need to be connected rather than
actually
I’ve been called agist numerous times by some of my friends. That I have an
issue with age difference in relationships. Well, I do. Has to do with longevity
expectations of a
I’ve found the following poem on the internet back in 99 or so and I memorized
it since then. It has continuously helped move on numerous times. It says it all
when
Would be as expected of an answer, but let’s write it down to keep it on record.
One of my recent nakshat moukh (literal translation: itching your brain, slang
for those once-in-while
Disconnect works, in many situations. It makes you think, or doesn’t. It gives
you space, a little breath too. It heals mostly.
After time it can hurt, when you remember the good
Monogamy is overly consumed, boring and over simplified.
When you hear that from someone who’s been a serial monogamist, you should pay
some attention.
I say that because it’s so heteronormative;
A current that ignites us at our core reaching our senses one by one at various
paces.
Our need to connect that is.
I munch on, crave, run into the wilderness of beings.
I was watching the latest episode of Grey’s Anatomy today and there was a
discussion between Grey and little Grey about sex and feelings. Older Grey
accusing little Grey that the latter